Brantley Gilbert, ‘You Don’t Know Her Like I Do’ – Song Review
The follow-up to Brantley Gilbert‘s chart-topping single ‘Country Must Be Country Wide’ allows the singer to show a dark vulnerability that is sure to make him a more appealing artist to country music fans who may be turned off by his brand of country rock. ‘You Don’t Know Her Like I Do’ is sentimental without being sissy.
Gilbert wrote or co-wrote all of the songs on his ‘Halfway to Heaven’ album, often drawing from personal experience. This mid-tempo cut about heartbreak feels genuine, though a little rushed. More time was needed to turn his pain into artistry.
“‘Cause you don’t know her like I do / You’ll never understand / You don’t know what we’ve been through / That girl’s my best friend / And there’s no way you’re gonna help me / She’s the only one who can / No, you don’t know how much I’ve got to lose / You don’t know her like I do,” Gilbert sings during the chorus. He’s talking to a friend that’s trying to move him past the hurt.
“I can’t forget, I’m drowning in these memories / It fills my soul with all the little things / And I can’t cope, it’s like a death inside the family / It’s like she stole my way to breathe / So don’t try to tell me I’ll stop hurting / And don’t try to tell me she ain’t worth it,” he adds during the second verse.
While Gilbert continues to bring a unique sound and perspective to country music, ‘You Don’t Know Her Like I Do’ is somewhat generic melodically. His passion and raw emotion overcome this flaw but not as well as some of the other songs on ‘Halfway to Heaven.’
Listen to Brantley Gilbert, ‘You Don’t Know Her Like I Do’